Mistletoe’s Lesser Known Virtues

​The legend states, "those who kiss  under the mistletoe
will fall in love and stay  in love."
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Memories of mistletoe may be pleasant for some, but my most frequent experiences were sheer panic, as I realized, often too late, there was a cluster over head and the wrong guy standing next to me. 
Romantic novels, and some friend’s stories, give a different perspective. They describe an opportunity to finally have an  innocent kiss  with your heart's desire and  find out if there is a  special spark. If the legend holds true, this is followed by a guaranteed happily ever after. 

MISTLETOE Caution - POISON

Gender: Masculine
Element:  Air
Planet: Sun

But this year, the coronavirus, masks, and distancing will eliminate what we have probably all thought of as mistletoe’s one and only role in holiday celebrations. We think of it as the  ‘kissing herb” and further examination probably  ends. When we apply labels, positive or negative, we tend to stop looking for other characteristics. 2020 has given us the  opportunity to view almost everything from a different perspectives, and taking a closer look at mistletoe may be surprising and beneficial!
Mistletoe, like most herbs, has a variety of folk names. One is All Heal, referring to its long, historic  role  in providing protection and healing. It has been carried to prevent, or cure, plague. It also ensures safety from fires and lightning, and will bring about good luck and fortune. Some sources  go  so far as to suggest there are spells using mistletoe to help you obtain immortality!
If you see mistletoe this year, I suggest  you abstain from kissing, but give some thought to attributes you might not have considered. We could all  use a bit of protection and healing from the plague, and mistletoe, all heal, will serve  us well.  
You might want to use the same approach with friends and family. What gifts and talents have been hidden in others  because they are over shadowed by a more dominant  label?   Holidays will be less  hectic this year and we’ll have more time to hunt for previously unnoticed treasures. Are there people in your life who have gifts and talents  you hadn’t noticed? Look beyond their most obvious talents and discover what you’ve been  missing!
Have  you discovered aspects in yourself that you have kept hidden? Do  you have interests  you’ve wanted to explore but haven’t taken the time to research or practice? You may  have an affinity  for music, but  focused  only on team sports. You might want to learn a  language and  study another  culture  so you’ll be ready  to visit exotic lands when  its safe to travel again. You might have  considered writing a novel but never made  the commitment to  follow through. These long dark days of isolation can give  us  an opportunity  to  explore and  develop new, or dormant, talents and skills. 
Nature is filled  with lessons.  Being more aware of mistletoe’s role in  lesser known virtues may guide  us to  insights about ourselves and  others we might not have considered.